Shirley Louise French's Obituary
Shirley Louise French
December 6, 1942 – November 14, 2024
Passed away after a long illness at Atrium Health Cabarrus, North Carolina.
In her long and interesting life Shirley travelled extensively and had a wide circle of family, step family, friends and acquaintances. She lived in several states including New Hampshire, Colorado, Texas, Michigan, Florida, and in Germany where her two first sons were born. She enjoyed spending summers for many years at the family camps on Lake Massasecum in Bradford, NH, and in her later years lived near her son James in Stanfield, NC. She was cared for solely by her son James and his wife Kimberly Crabtree in her later years of declining health until she passed away.
Educated at Northfield Mount Herman School a college-preparatory school in Gill, MA. She attended the University of NH in Durham, NH, where she met her first husband, Allen Crabtree. Later, when the newly married couple was living in Denver, Colorado, she received her BA degree at the University of Colorado. Received her RN from Lansing Community College in Michigan.
Worked at the Epsom Manor as a RN specializing in care of the elderly.
Shirley was the adopted daughter of J. Fred and Florence French of Manchester, NH. Shirley was able to reconnect with her birth family and in her later life adopted their Kingsbury family name.
She is survived by her sons James I. Crabtree (Kimberly Crabtree) of Stanfield, NC and Russell Voss (Aimee Voss) of Gray, ME, and her first husband Allen F. Crabtree III of Sebago, ME. Grandchildren Abigale Crabtree of Stanfield, NC, James Ian Crabtree Jr of Stanfield NC and Hazel Voss of Gray, ME.
Predeceased by her adopted parents, her son Allen F Crabtree IV of Oakland, CA, second husband Keith Voss of Michigan, and third husband David Stanbro of Satalite Beach, FL.
A private funeral is planned for family at a later date, and she will be interred at the French family cemetery in Manchester, NH.
Donations in Shirley’s memory may be given to the Crabtree Family.
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