Donald Gilbert Higham's Obituary
Donald Gilbert Higham, 88, died at his home in Oakboro, NC, on Sunday, October 27, 2024. He was born on August 14, 1936, in New Bedford, Massachusetts, to the late Joseph and Elsie Higham. He is survived by his wife, Joyce Huneycutt Higham, of 54 years, and three children: Larisa Thompson (Dan) of Oakboro, NC, Krysta Arabudzki (Tom) of Nashua, NH, and Joseph Higham (Terri) of Lancaster, SC. Grandchildren include Josie Thompson of Raleigh, NC, Hunter Thompson of Charlotte, NC, Ella and Grace Higham of Lancaster, SC, Katja and Nikolaj Arabudzki of Nashua, NH. Step grandchildren include Andrew Thompson (Marleny) of Gmund, Germany, Jennica Lynch (Daniel) of Columbus, OH, Joshua Haller of Columbus, OH, and Jacob Haller (deceased). Lily and Liam Lynch of Columbus, OH, are great step grandchildren.
Donald loved his wife, his children and their spouses, and his grandchildren. Shortly before his death, Donald stated that the birth of his children marked one of the happiest moments of his life; his compassionate love was extended to his family throughout his life.
Donald received his B.S. degree in engineering from The University of Massachusetts in Amherst. After graduation, he specialized in quality assurance with the Federal Government for many years.
A native New Englander, the region’s natural beauty: forests, lakes, sea, and ubiquitous stone walls forged his character. The character traits that defined him were frugality, flintiness, and grittiness. His grit sustained him through his later years as multiple diseases afflicted him. His courage and steadfastness inspired his family and friends. Donald’s favorite place in New England was Cape Cod, Massachusetts, where his family spent many delightful summer vacations. “Going to the Cape” was a much-anticipated family event.
The Higham family is being served by Stanly Funeral Home in Locust, and a private celebration of life will be held later. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the National Kidney Foundation.
Donald’s legacy lives on through his love for his family and the memories that his family will forever cherish.
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