Brenda Widenhouse Whitley's Obituary
Brenda Widenhouse Whitley, 80, of Charlotte, passed away peacefully on February 19, 2026, in Charlotte. A graveside service will be held at 2:00 PM on Sunday at Pleasant Grove Baptist Church Cemetery, officiated by Pastor Tab Whitley.
Born January 3, 1946, in Cabarrus County, North Carolina, Brenda was the daughter of the late Hugh Widenhouse and Mary Elizabeth Moss Widenhouse. She retired from Rexam Corporation, where she worked faithfully for many years as an accountant, known for her precision, integrity, and strong work ethic.
Brenda was a member of Pleasant Grove Baptist Church and a woman of steadfast faith. She lived her life guided by the words of Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Her faith was not only something she professed, but something she lived daily — with strength, grace, and quiet determination.
Her family remembers her as detail-oriented, strong-willed, and deeply devoted to those she loved. She cherished her daughters and took great pride in her family. She also held a special and enduring love for the father of her children, Terrell Whitley. Brenda found joy in life’s simple pleasures — reading a good book, tending to her yard and flowers, and listening to music, especially “Come Jesus Come” by CeCe Winans, which reflected the hope and devotion that marked her life.
She is survived by her daughters, Marilyn Whitley and Cynthia Whitley, both of Charlotte; their father, Terrell Whitley of Albemarle; her sister, Judy Sides of Concord; and her sister-in-law, Linda Widenhouse of Concord. She was preceded in death by her brother, Wayne Widenhouse.
Brenda’s life was a testimony of faith, perseverance, and love. She leaves behind a legacy of strength and devotion that will continue to inspire all who knew her.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorials be made to the hospice organization of the donor's choice.
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